3 Cost-Free Ways to Spice Up Your “Holiday Sexy”
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3 Cost-Free Ways to Spice Up Your “Holiday Sexy”
By Jamie Azar Certified Relationship and Intimacy Coach
Regardless of all the pressure materialism creates around the holidays, most of us recognize the true value in simply spending time with people we care about or enjoying uninterrupted time with ourselves. Additionally, though gifts can be great, who also doesn’t love a little pleasure, sensuality, and intentional sexy time? Whether you’re single, in a relationship, dating, monogamous or non-monogamous, here are 3 cost-free ways to spice up your holiday, for you or for that special someone(s).
Strike a Pose! 📸
Have you ever experienced a boudoir shoot? You don’t need to go anywhere, and it doesn’t necessarily have to be extravagant, though it can be whatever you want! Why not create a sultry holiday scene, or something dark and moody? Put on something you don’t wear often. It doesn’t have to be something “traditionally” sexy, like lingerie, or boxers, or thongs. Go through what you already have. Put on some music, adjust the lighting, and perform any rituals that will help to get you into a playful or erotic mood.
Play around with different poses. Laugh out loud. Touch and hug yourself. Will you incorporate some sweet treats or warm drinks? Will you invent a character? Give yourself permission to do whatever feels good. You can always try a few different scenes or backgrounds in your home, or play around with AI assisted tools, and fun filters. These photos could be for you, for a partner or spouse, for someone in the future, or memorabilia you frame and put in your own bedroom. Perhaps this becomes an erotic tradition. Here are some playful captions that might inspire ideas. Permission to get as cheesy, goofy, playful, or as naughty as you like:
✨"Don’t make me text Santa…”
✨"I heard you’re on the naughty list…”
✨ “Have I Been Naughty or Nice?”
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